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Some of today’s black men are so girlish that they look at a white man’s looks without factoring in anything else–like maybe dude is average but is BRILLIANT and displays COMPETENCY to be a good provider, protector and producer.
Social media maven and empowerment superstar, Breukelen Bleu wrote a post this morning that was brilliant and a must read.
This will not apply to every black woman, but it wouldn’t hurt either.
You should be looking at the do not say “You are beautiful, smart, whatsoever for a black woman! ” This is the macroaggression we’ve mentioned above.
It may be hard for two people from widely different intersections of race and gender to understand each other, it is not impossible.
Maybe, just maybe, they are treated more kindly, appreciated, and building with men who share their values, not just their melanin content.Give them permission to demand anything else, and they will LEAVE THE COMMUNITY. While white men are not the only group to hold racial biases and stereotypes against black women, they tend to be the least informed on the racialized and gendered issues that black women face daily.First, I’ll start this article by saying, “just kidding.” I have immense loyalty to black women, and that’s all I’ve ever dated in my adult life.But after reading the article “8 Reasons to date a white man,” I just had to respond for the brothers.